cj56789 的个人博客

I sat beside the train window, watching the gorgeous autumn farmlands glow pinkly in the westering sun. I was on my way back to school after a twelve-day vacation at a hospital. As I reflect upon those days I spent nursing my grandma, who was going through a surgery against cervical cancer, I could hardly recall the feeling of melancholy apprehension when I was on my way back home twelve days earlier. Instead, my mind was filled with peace and faith, my heart beating firmly and powerfully. I came to realize that those days I spent nursing my grandma may be one of the most memorable and self-changing experiences in my entire life.

When I got word that my grandma had cervical cancer, my head spun and I was hardly on my feet. I couldn’t believe such a kind and lovable person as her should again suffer from such bad disease in less than seven years of time. When she had breast cancer six years ago, I was 13, studying hard in junior high and my mum wouldn’t let me go to Beijing, where Grandma received her therapy, to help with nursing. This time, however, she wanted me back.

 But it was me this time who had hesitations. I found myself scared by the idea that I would have to be part of it, that I would see for myself the pains my loved one would suffer, and that I might even experience firsthand the grief of losing someone I couldn’t afford to lose. “Are you ready for those all?” I kept asking myself. At that time I even thought about cooking up a damned poor excuse that I had to study interpretation in Beijing and couldn’t be back. Thus I could be exempt from possible fears and anguish that would tear me apart.

I got on the plane after all. When I rushed into the ward and saw Grandma sitting on the bed greeting me with a broad smile, all those fears and hesitations vanished without a trace. The only thing I knew was that I was there for her and it was worth anything. 
        The last few minutes before Grandma was sent into the operating room was one of the most tortuous moments I could recall in my life so far. She was awfully calm and tried to comfort everyone else in the room. When she lied on the wheeled stretcher and I held her hands really, tears were stinging at the back of my eyelids and threatened to spill over at any moment. I intended to say things like “Come on! You can do it.” But I felt the pain of choke in my throat and was afraid tears would spring out before I could finish those words. So I tried really hard and put a big smile on my face. Before I let go of her hand, I heard her say, “Don’t cry. You know you’ve made me so proud.” I never told her I had a good long cry after that.

The operation was a great success and I kept a nightlong vigil for her afterwards. During the next few days I learned everything about nursing a patient. Keeping track of the body temperature, the urine volume and the drainage volume from hour to hour, giving massage to the muscles lack of exercise, changing fresh dressings of the wound, closely watching the speed of intravenous drips etc. Those experiences made me understand that every small detail can have a tremendous impact on the recovery of a patient and that nothing is sweeter than knowing someone you love is getting better day by day because of your devotions and care.

Ever since I came back here I've been wondering what it would be like if I never went back home. It might sound crazy but I do have this feeling that if things turned out that way I would've probably lost her by now, emotionally at least, if not physically. Even if everything worked out fine and all my family members were totally understanding and nobody blamed me for a thing, I would never, ever forgive myself and pretend that it never happened because it did, it happened in me. And I would possibly grow into one of those people whose life become miserable because they did or didn't do something when they obviously knew what they were doing was  terrible so that even after ten or twenty years, whenever that thing popped out in the middle of the night, they would wake up overwhelmed by a devastating sense of guilt and regret and they would secretly begin to hate themselves. I feel so blessed that God didn't let me become one of them. Or rather maybe it was Grandma who didn't want me to become one of them. Ever since I was born, she's been planting seeds of love on the land of my heart as a protection so that when this day came, I  did what I did not because I felt I should do it, but because I genuinely wanted to. I love Grandma so much and I wanted to be there for her. She's long been a theist and always believed in miracles. You know what, I believe that if there really exist miracles that I can see from her life, that would  be her unyielding commitment to her family, her loyalty and trust to her friends, her warm and peaceful spiritual strength, and her brave love for other people and the world. She dosen't make miracles, she is a miracle.

We often hear it said that one has to make many choices in a lifetime, some of which may be hard and life-altery. But what happened lately has caused me to believe that it might not be the decision itself that has the power to change one's life. It's the process of making it. Sometimes it can be hard, pressing and even painful and it takes great efforts. Those efforts are the part that matters the most . It is through the struggles and the fact that they are hard that differences are made. So don't be afraid to make your choice because God smiles when you do your part to make a brave and beautiful world.

个案1：                                              
有一妇女手提包被偷，里面有手机、银半夜凉初透行卡、钱包等。 20分钟后，她打通了老公的电话，告诉自己被偷的事。老公惊呼：“啊，我刚才收到你的短信，问咱家银半夜凉初透行卡的密码，我立马就回了！”他们赶到银行时，被告知里面所有的钱都已被提走。小偷通过用偷来的手机发送短信给 "亲爱的老公"nbsp;而获取了密码，然后在短短20分钟内把钱取走了。nbsp;nbsp;nbsp;nbsp;
提醒：    
不要在手机通讯录中暴露自己与联系人的关系，忌用 “家电” 、“ 老”、“爸妈”等称呼。一律用名字，字越少越安全。    

个案2：    
有三位自驾游的朋友不慎连人带车跌落一百五十公尺深的山谷，受困四日三夜后，才获救。其间，他们曾多次想以手机向外求救。无奈一只被摔坏，一只没电了，一只收讯不良。他们还多次移动位置以寻找较佳的收发信号地，但都不成功。如果这三位人士平常就知道１１２专线，紧急时刻也能知道如何用那只收讯不良的手机拨出１１2专线，相信他们可以很快获救。    



提醒：    
全国各地通用的１１２专线，在手机打开后即使没有接收信号，甚至电力极为微弱，任何厂牌的手机在任何地点皆可拨通。拨出１１２后，马上会进入语音说明如下 ∶这里是行动电话１１２紧急救难专线，如果您要报案，请拨0，我们将会为您转接警薄雾浓云愁永昼察局；如果您需要救助，请拨９，我们将会为您转接消防局。中文讲完后，会以英文重述一遍。此时只要拨0或９，一定会有人接听。以三位人士所处的情况，或登山迷途或遭遇其它困境 时，应拨９，将可获得及时的救助。    



个案3：    
有个留学生喜欢吃速食杯面，后来，这位留学生因身体不适去医院看病，医生发现他的胃壁附着一层蜡！原来，杯面的容器里包含一种可食用的蜡！各位下次吃杯面的时候摸摸看杯壁是不是觉得滑滑的，那就是了。而长时间的食用杯面，将造成我们的肝脏无法分解这种食用蜡。最后，这位留学生不得不寻求手术治疗以移除这层蜡，不幸去世。    

提醒：    
吃泡面的时候，尽量把面拿出来，另外用碗来泡食，不要用碗面、杯面所附的容器直接冲开水食用。哪怕是出差，也要带上一只大茶缸泡面用。为了自己的身体，不要偷懒啊！    

个案4：    
一件很可怕的事：有一天，一个 21岁男生戴着隐形眼镜去参加一个烤肉野聚会！就在他开始以木炭生火之后的几分钟，他突然大叫一声，然后很痛苦的跳来跳去，在地上打滚……全场的人都吓呆了，没人知道究竟发生了什么事？大家赶紧送他到医院，医生检查后遗憾地说，他的眼睛失明了！    

提醒：    
参加野外烧烤或任何有可能接触到火源的时候，请不要戴隐形眼镜！因为隐形眼镜是用塑胶制成的，过热的温度会熔化我们眼中的隐形眼镜！    

个案5：    
苏西跌倒了，雪丽看到苏西跌倒就立刻问了苏西“三个问题”。她见苏西无法回答这三个问题，就立即打120电话求救。虽然当时苏西的血压正常，看起来也没有中风的样子。但因为雪丽有“三个问题”的认知常识，坚持把苏西送到医院救治，使苏西很快康复而没有留下后遗症。    

提醒：    
有时候中风的征兆很难辨识，常因为中风患者旁边的人没有适时发现，延误救治而使患者脑部受损。我们要问患者的三个问题是：要求病患展示笑容；要求病患两只手都举起来；要求病患说出一句简单的话。如果病患无法做到这三点，周围的人就应该立即打120救护电话，并且告诉随车的救护人员这是中风的征兆。如果我们能够广泛传递并且应用这种询问方式，测试中风征兆，就可以迅速诊断治疗中风患者，最大限度地避免患者脑部受损。      


    
    

  （1）建行一同志转述: 今天经过一栋大楼门口，门口有一提款机。有一个老伯，一直看着我走过他身边，突然叫住我,他说他不识字，拿一张银半夜凉初透行卡要我帮他在大楼门口的自动提款机取钱。我回答我无法帮你取，叫警卫帮你。结果，他就回答我说不用了,继续找其他路人帮他取钱。朋友们要记住---取款机可是有摄影机耶。万一他说我抢劫或是偷他的提款卡，甚至他的卡片是偷来的，帮他领钱会在提款机留下影像，绝对会让你百口莫辩！我会警惕 ! 是因为已有同事上当，目前仍官司缠身。显然这是诈骗集团在找替身了! 请立即传出去~~~ 骗案真是层出不穷,一不小心就会踏入陷阱,真是令人防不胜防！提醒各位朋友在外多小心！　  
（2）芍药居一业主，家中突然断电，看到窗户外别人家里都有电，就出门查看自家电表箱，打开门就被刀子顶着了——持刀入室抢劫....提醒大家如果家里突然断电，不要贸然就开门查看，有猫眼的多观察一会门外动静，没猫眼的也隔着门静听一段时间，没有异常响动再开门 . 　　  
　  
（3）各位女同胞们注意了！这是最新骗东篱把酒黄昏后局　　女同胞请注意 男同胞请叫自己的朋友注意 :新出的情况,女性朋友要特别注意啦:一位上班的小姐在下班回家的路上看到一个小孩子一直哭，很可怜 ,然后就过去问那小朋友怎么了.小朋友就跟那个小姐说:"nbsp;我迷路了,可以请你带我回家吗?"然后拿一张纸条给她看,nbsp;说那是他家地址.然后她就笨笨的带小孩子去了.一般人都有同情心,然后带到那个所谓小孩子的家里以后,她一按铃，门铃像是有高压电,就失去知觉了.醒来就被脱人比黄花瘦光光在一间空屋里,身边什么都没有了,她甚至连犯人长啥样子都没看见.所以,现在人犯案都是利用同情心啊，如果遇到类似这种的,千万别带他去,要带就带他到派出所去好了,走丢的小孩放到派出所一定没错啦，请通知身边所有女性，为了广大女士的安全，看完后麻烦给转发给所有人....nbsp;
　  
（4）今天遇到讨饭新招，大家注意提防了～～  
　　今天在家休息，有人按门铃，开门一看，是个50来岁的老妇女，手里拿了2包喜糖，我还以为是邻居来分喜糖的，结果一开口，听得出不是本地人，她说什么这2包糖给我们的，图个喜气，要换一点钱给她，后面还说了一大堆不知道什么，我也没听清楚，感觉就是不对，吓的马上关门，晕！这年头，还有这么讨钱的... 　　  
　  
（5）大家注意了！到自动取款机取钱时一定要倍加小心！！！！！  
　　昨晚在金海里的工行自动取款机取钱时，后面来了个老妇女，问我能不能取钱，还说什么取款机有个键可能坏了，旁边不知什么时候来了个小女孩，一直想往我身边挤，我也没在意，小孩子淘气嘛，可是过分的是她竟然把手朝出钞口放，准备拿我的钱了，我感觉不对劲了，立即把她推到一边，等着把钱取出来。之后我想了一下，她们俩给我设了个套：老妇女负责和我瞎聊，吸引我的注意力，小女孩趁我不注意时抢走我的钱！如果我不防备的话，钱说不定就被抢走了，这样的话，我就进套了：（一:我立即去追小女孩，去追回我的钱，可是谁又会相信一个小女孩能抢我一个大人的钱呢？更可怕的是站在我后面的老妇女将会取光我卡中所有的钱，因为我的卡还在取款机里面；二:我不立即去追小女孩，等拿到卡再追，到那时小女孩就无影无踪了，钱也就没了啊：（她们真的很"聪明"，很可耻的！！！)nbsp;　　nbsp;
　  
（6）我父母都退休在家。昨天上午，来一陌生中年人，说自己摩托车油开没了，加油站太远，摩托车又太重推不动，所以想问我父母要一个可乐瓶去买汽油，刚开口就说实在不行就出2、3元买一个空瓶好了。我母亲就拿了个空瓶给他，别说他还真从口袋里掏出钱来，不过是几张百元大钞，还让我父母找钱。我母亲顿生警觉，说算了，不过是一个空瓶而已。他非要把100元钱破开买下来，只不过还是那张百元大钞。好在我母亲尚未龙钟，也不是那种爱贪小便宜的人. 　　女性朋友一定要认真看完，注意自我安全啊，现在万恶的社会。。。。朋友发给我一篇报道,现转给各位看看 ,出门在外,千万小心,小心千万。。。　

    
  （7）一对新婚夫妇到巴黎度蜜月。在巴黎,妻子在一间时尚服装店试衣服 ,身为丈夫就在试衣间外等候。但等候多时却不见妻子走出来 ,紧张的丈夫要求店员帮忙到里头查看 ,却意外发现试衣间空无一人。丈夫以为妻子开玩笑作弄人 ,要他紧张.于是回到酒店等她回来。几小时后却不见妻子的踪影,才知事态严重。丈夫赶忙报警 ,并到巴黎所有服装店和医院询问妻子下落。三星期过去了，妻子犹如从人间蒸发,音讯全无,伤心的丈夫只能收拾包袱回到老家。由于无法从绝望中振作,丈夫无心工作,一直独自生活 ,决定把自己放逐,流浪到各地方。几年后 ,他心血来潮到巴厘岛，在一破旧的屋子参观一畸形秀 ( freak show ) 。他见到一脏生锈的铁笼里,有一女人四肢全无,身躯,包括脸部,犹如破布般残破 ,充满疤痕。她在地上扭曲着 ,并发出有如野兽般的XXXXX声。突然间男人惊恐地发出尖叫声。他从那毫无人样的女人脸上见到,他再熟悉不过,属于他新婚不久就告失踪的妻子脸上的红色胎记。  
　  
（8）另一版本则发生在上海。几年前一女通知公半夜凉初透安她的表妹在上海市集购物时无故失踪,可是遍寻不着 ,直到五年后一友人撞见这表妹在泰国曼谷街道上行乞。XXXXX的是她不知何故没了双手双脚,身子被铁链绑在灯柱旁。  
9）最近有人告诉我，他的朋友在晚上听到门口有婴儿在哭，不过当时已很晚了而且她认为这件事很奇怪，于是她打电话给JC。JC告诉她∶ 「无论如何，绝对不要开门。」这位女士表示那声音听起来象是婴儿爬到窗户附近哭，她担心婴儿会爬到街上，被车子碾过。JC告诉她∶我们已派人前往，无论如何不能开门。警方认为这是一个连续杀人犯，利用婴儿哭声的录音带，诱使女性以为有人在外面遗弃婴儿，她们出门察看。虽然尚未证实此事，但是警方已接到许多女性打电话来说，他们晚上独自在家时，听到门外有婴儿的哭声，请将这个消息传给其他人，不要因为听到婴儿的哭声而开门。  
　　请严肃看待这篇文字！有这么离谱！小心为妙!!!